-Where's Larry? -Calm down.
-Where is he? -We waited to book him.
-Where is he? -You gonna calm down?
Don't talk to me like l'm a child!
He's out back with Denny.
Kathy's inside with the kid. Vanessa's with them.
l'm gonna kill you!
l'm getting nowhere with her.
-Maybe you can try. -Got it.
Are you okay?
Neighbors moved in two weeks ago, and they're calling the police.
Welcome to the neighborhood.
-Must've gotten pretty loud. -We had a fight. People fight.
Why don't you tell me--?
Oh, my--
Shit!
-Don't make it worse. -lt gets worse?
-lt's never happened before. -Oh, first time for everything.
Don't fucking patronize me. l don't need this shit.
-Look at you. - Look at you, in my house!
Policing my family! Where do you get off?
lt's me. l didn't hit you.
l don't want your fucking pity, okay?
lt happened, all right? He's torn up about it.
He's torn up about it? Fuck him! He's torn up?
Has he hit Larry, Jr. yet?
He'd never do that. He's a good man, Sharon.
That's what my mother said to us.
''Your father's a good man. He's torn up about it. ''
Get out of my house. Get the fuck out of my house!
Have you looked into counseling?
-Want to hit a woman? Hit me! -Fuck! Here we go.
-Calm-- -Back off.
-lt was an accident. -lt looks more like a car accident.
-Very funny. Look-- -Shut up!
You disgust me, you fucking coward!
You're a fucking cunt!
-What are you doing? -Let go! Get off!
You guys saw that.
You saw that. You're witnesses. That's assault!
l'll press charges.
Let him press charges!
What are you talking about? l'm bleeding!
l saw nothing. l saw you trip and fall.
Look at her! She's crazy!
You lay a hand on her again, and l'll arrest you myself!
You're just like him!
Yeah, and what about you?
Get some help.
Okay. All right. Thanks for coming down.
My mother always said it was a family thing.
That l'd broken some kind of sacred oath. l don't know.
When we walked in that day and saw him beating her. . . .
What was l supposed to do?
Larry was the one who'd always jump in and protect her.
And he always paid for it.
l never did anything.
l just ran and hide.
You did the right thing. You called for help.
A lot of good it did me.
But you didn't do it for you.
All those years. . .
. . .my dad never hurt me.
Not once.
Yes, he did.
Stop right there! Stop!
Freeze!
Shit!
l got constitutionality issues for my attorney!
Mr. Steak Knife has ''constitutionality issues. ''
Bitch, that ain't mine.
Watch your mouth.
He's trying to stick up for his lady.
You want to share love with your partner. Right, Officer Ho?
-Ho! Officer Ho! -Or Officer Bitch? Which one is it?
You ain't seen nothing.
Fuck up your life, l don't care.
You want this life for your little brother?
Banging until he's shot in the head like your older brother?
He's a kid. He's got a chance.
-l ain't got a chance? -No, l'm saying this is your chance.
Are you smart enough to recognize it?
Come on, get in back.
What, you found God or something?
Don't bust my balls, all right?
Come in!
Hey, you got some new furniture.
-And a new friend. Who's this? -Bob.
-You named your dog Bob. -No, that was his name.
-He told you that? -Yeah.
l got something too. An invitation to my parents' renewal of vows.
lt came today. Found it in the mailbox this morning.
Are you gonna go?
l don't know.
Would you?
Are you asking me to go with you?
Why, would you do that?
Can Bob come?
Sure.
Now that we got that settled. . . .
Feed me. l'm hungry.
l'll get my jacket.
And change your T-shirt. You smell like dog.
What are you doing?
-What's with the toys? -Don't go through my things.
l wasn't. lt was open.
Why do you have all these toys?
l didn't mean to upset you.
Come on.
Let's just go.
What?
Nothing.
Let's go.
Be good, Bob.
-You know everybody? -How you doing?
Going uphill, man.
-You try it. -No. . . .
Go ahead.
l feel like a jerk.
Try again.
What?
You like blues?
Come on, let's go in.
Come on.
Take off your coat. Let's stay a while.
Come on.
That was incredible! l didn't know you played.
-Why didn't you tell me? -l don't know.
-Why'd you leave? lt was great! -Steve!
Oh, man, l don't believe this! Steve Lambert!
How you doing? You okay? lt's been--
You have me confused with somebody else.
You kidding me? Stevie, it's me.
-Tony! -l don't know a Steve.
ls it a joke?
l was up in my office and l heard that sound, your sound.
l don't know who you are.
Get away from me!
You mind explaining this to me?
Who is that? You owe him money or something?
l don't know who he is.
ls your name Steve?
My name's Catch.
-What do you want? -The truth!
-Who's Steve Lambert? -l don't know.
Are we living some kind of lie?
What'll l find out next? That you are married?
-Where are you going? -What do you want me to say?
l don't want you to say anything! Don't say anything.
You want to go? Go.
Please leave a message after the tone.
Catch, it's me. Can you pick up?
Listen, i was wondering if we could meet tomorrow.
At this place called Enrico 's. it's on Halsted and Marion.
Around 2:00, okay?
Okay.
Bye.
-About the other day-- -You don't have to explain.
l probably do.
But. . . . l'm fine.
Come on.
l thought we were having coffee.
-You can trust me, you know. -l know that.
l'd never hurt you.
Remember when you said some people were meant to meet each other?
Maybe we were meant to meet that night.
The night l held your hand.
What do you mean?
Maybe you don't remember.
-You were unconscious-- -No, l don't.
l was there.
lt was me that was there that night.
At the accident?
What are you talking about?
-Maybe it's why we met again. -What are you doing?
-Trying to help. -With what? l'm fine.
-l don't think you are. You pretend-- -l'm not pretending!
-You're lying. -l'm not lying!
Then walk in there. And l'll walk in there with you.
-Why are you doing this? -Because you had a family.
-Shut up. Stop. -You had a wife and a child.
l'm so sorry it happened. l want you to have a life.
l have a life. We don't need--
-Please! lt happened. -We don't need to go into this.
-Please-- -You like to push people, don't you?
l just want to understand you, to know who you are.
l can't do that if you don't let me. l know it's hard, l can imagine--
You can't imagine anything!
You have no idea how it feels to do what l did--
What?
Stay with me, okay?
lt's not your fault. l was there, l saw the reports.
That truck, it just-- Catch, please.
l'm trying to tell you something, okay?
l'm trying to tell you that. . . .
You're not alone.
-l'm trying to tell you that l. . . . -Don't.
-You're supposed to be his dad! -Can't you take him?
l'll be busy! l won't have time today!
And l have time?
That's a hell of a greeting. What's up with you?
You don't return my calls. Haven't shown up for work three, four days.
You don't look like you got the flu.
-l take it Freak Show dumped you? -Fuck you.
l wish l could say l'm sorry, but l ain't.
l think it's best for everybody.
-Really? And who's ''everybody''? -Me.
Martha Stewart, you gonna pour your partner a cup?
He had you.
He got you, didn't he?
l'm gonna give you some real strong advice.
Change the subject.
Charlene's pregnant.
That's great.
Congratulations.
l'm not sure l'm ready to be a daddy yet.
l haven't gotten over Miss Stillwell.
Who?
Tenth-grade English teacher.
Hot-buttered Stillwell.
l know you gotta go through this.
l'll tell the boss l stopped by to see you.
You as sick as a dog, coughing up organs and shit.
But l can't let this go on much longer.
We got us a job to do out there.
We gotta clean these streets before my baby gets here.
You know what l'm saying?
Has he been here?
l was expecting him this morning. He shops for me.
l give him money from the settlement every week.
Can't talk about that with him.
When he comes here, do you ever talk about the accident?
-Does he ever mention the past? -No.
Why not?
l try to let him find his own way through.
l feel he needs that.
Why are you here, Sharon?
l want to know how to help him.
-You are helping him. -l don't think so.
What makes you think that?
l took him to the cemetery--
The cemetery?
l thought it might help.
He needs to face it.
He will face it, in his time.
He built a wall around that whole day and that night.
My daughter and my grandson.
He can't help it.
A cemetery. . . .
Do you know how hard it is for me to go to the cemetery?
l was just trying to help him get back to some kind of life.
He was coming back.
Don't you realize how he's changed these past weeks?
His apartment, his life? He fell in love.
Why do you want to rush things? Why does everybody rush things these days?
l was scared.
Scared of what?
Of losing him.
And l guess that's what l did. l lost him.
You were just trying to find your way.
What else can we do?
You think l'm always sure about what l should or shouldn't say to him?
l just try to do what's right. . .
. . .and hope that he'll find the love in it.
Look at you. . .
. . .so worried now, and miserable.
There's love in that.
''l just. . .
. . .wanted to wish you both the best. ''
''l just want to wish you both well and say congratulations. ''
''Hi, Mom, Dad.
l just stopped by to say congratulations. . .
. . .and l think it's great. ''
These shoes, no.
Please leave a message after the tone.
Catch?
Can you pick up?
Will you call me?
You declared your love for one another in the presence of Christ.
He consecrated you in baptism. . .
. . .enriched and strengthened you in the sacrament of matrimony. . .
. . .so you can carry out the duties of marriage in lasting fidelity.
--congratulates you and rejoices with you. . .
. . .on reaching this milestone in your journey.
Are you prepared to give yourselves again. . .
. . .to that union larger than yourselves. . .
. . .that union already blessed by God?
-Yes. -Yes, we are.
Face each other and join hands please, and say after me:
-l, Carl. . . -l, Carl. . .
-. . .take thee, Josephine. . . -. . .take thee, Josephine. . .
-. . .to be my wife. -. . .to be my wife.
-l, Josephine. . . -l, Josephine. . .
-. . .take you, Carl. . . -. . .take you, Carl. . .
-. . .to be my husband. -. . .to be my husband.
l promise to be true to you in good times and in bad. . .
. . .in sickness and in health.
l promise to love you. . .
...and honor you till death do us part.
Annie.
Max.
l don't want you to think l forgot you.
lt's just that l couldn't find you. l woke up and you were gone.
Everything was gone. lt just disappeared in one minute.
l couldn't remember that minute. l lost it.
But l think l found it all now. l used a calculator, see.
Do you know we get about 1 400 minutes a day?
So l figured it out.
l was. . .
. . .29 years old. . .
. . .three months and eight days.
So it was minute number. . .
. . . 1 7,81 0,200 or so.
That's the one l lost.
When l lost that minute, l guess l. . . .
l tried to lose it all. . .
. . .all the memories. . .
. . .because it hurt so bad.
l tried, but. . . .
But l couldn't do it.
Max, you were sick that day, remember?
lt was your birthday. . .
. . .and you ate too much.
Annie, you said:
''Slow down, it's wet, okay?''
And you were right.
l should have slowed down.
l should have slowed down lots of times.
But l didn't always listen.
l didn't listen when you. . .
. . .when you said, ''Steve, just please spend more time. ''
That day l made you smile, Max, remember?
You looked at me...
...and i made a face...
...and then we all smiled.
lt was a great minute.
lt was.
l'm so glad l found that minute.
And no matter what. . .
. . .no matter what, l won't forget anymore.
Daddy!
l won't forget anymore.
l love you.
Don't make him talk about anything today.
l know.
lt was a nice ceremony.
We're running out of chicken.
Nobody's eating the ham.
lt's still a great party.
You look happy.
30 years and still in love, huh?
You think that's wrong, don't you?
Of course not.
You're beautiful.
Dad.
-Don't walk away, okay? -What?
ls it working? Do you need to check it?
-lt's fine. -Dad--
-What the hell are you doing? -Sharon, please.
Please, please what? Why do you always protect him?
''Don't bother your father. ''
l'm gonna bother you for a minute. Can you handle that?
-You get the hell-- -This is between me and my father.
So both of you, just leave us alone for one goddamn minute!
How about you, Dad?
You want me to go?
-lt's up to you. -l'm asking you.
Am l welcome here?
You're here, aren't you?
-What do you want? -l want to know.
Do you want me here?
Do you still love me? l want to know.
l feel like. . . .
You feel like what, Dad?
l feel like l don't have a daughter anymore.
Well. . .
. . .you do. And it's a shame that you'll miss knowing her.
l'm next.
Hi, Mom, Dad. Congratulations.
You know, being in this house reminds of something.
l was about 1 0 years old.
Me and Larry were playing alien invasion.
Remember, Lar?
Anyway, we were making a lot of noise.
Dad came home from work, tired and pissed off.
We were yelling like mad.
He burst into the room and he yells:
''What the hell are you doing?! ''
And l was scared.
l was really scared.
And l said:
''We're playing alien invasion. ''
And he said, ''l'll show you a damn alien invasion! ''
He picks me up.
He picks me up off the floor and he throws me on the couch.
Then he grabs Larry and picks him up and throws him on the couch.
And then. . . .
Then he starts making monster noises.
He says, ''We came to Earth to kick ass! ''
Me and Larry, we're running and jumping at him.
We're laughing so hard. . .
. . .l almost wet myself.
And we keep running and jumping on him, and he keeps tossing us.
And growling and beeping.
lt was great.
l'll never forget that.
And l miss that.
l miss it.
Anyway, l just. . .
. . .wanted to say thanks for that, Dad.
Thanks.
Bye.
What are you doing here?
You invited me.
Are you okay?
Yeah, l'm okay.
l wanted to apologize.
For what?
For wanting everything to be perfect. You were right, l was pushing you.
Then l realized that. . .
. . .it doesn't have to be perfect.
l mean. . . .
lt can be whatever it is.
They don't like me very much in there.
They're lucky to have you in there.
-That's a nice thing to say. -lt's not a nice thing.
lt's the truth.
Why do you try so hard not to cry?
lt's not fair.
l did the right thing.
l know l did.
lt's not fair that they're shutting me out.
There's nothing l can do anymore.
l went, Sharon.
l went to see my wife and my son today.
l told them that l love them and that l miss them.
And then l told them about you.
l told them how much l love you.
l love you.
l love you too.
l'll drive.
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